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My roommate, coming into self-actualization (and we all know how difficult that can be) has been simultaneously trying on different personas to see which feels best...and not sleeping (I remember those days). He also has this thing where he doesn't feel as though he should ever have to explain himself. To anyone. Ever. To the point gentle suggestions or questions may come off as antagonistic, or even demanding.
And yet there's so much I don't understand.
Admittedly there are things I don't need to understand, but also things maybe I should understand:
