I used to think that love alone could overcome any obstacle. I was only partially correct.
I now understand the true "power" of "love" to unflinchingly incorporate identical ideologies, flexibility, unwavering devotion to incorporating dissimilar or even antithetical change into an often chaotic operating environment - and then tame it to peace with consistent reevaluation without provocation, while stringently questioning ones own beliefs and biases to the point of doubt; an unwavering understanding of shared responsibility toward decisions and decision making, passing when applicable and owning when applicable both the burden of that responsibility, and its joy - while maintaining intrinsic motivation and interdependence both individually and collectively.
And they say love is hard to define.
Amateurs!