Sometimes younger people astonish me with there ideas of how people should look. If it were up to most of them, we would all be skinny little models! Sometimes I think they are afraid of people being different! On that note, yes L looks different than the picture you posted from 1989 but she is a very lovely lady and anyone who says differently is just a plain moron!

Also....I can not remember when I ever weighed 185 pounds....maybe in middle school! I have always been a large man and it has always bothered me but I have never been one to look at someone and see their weight, I always see past that and see who they are instead!